The aftermath of a breakup can be terrible for most of us even when we think that we have moved on, and it can result in unavoidable symptoms of depression and melancholy. We all get told by our friends and family members to deal this crucial phase of our life with compassion and rationality, but most of the time we would find our feelings becoming too overwhelming for us to think straight. “Never look back”, that is what we hear from most of our friends. If you still have feelings for your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, then there are various rekindling techniques and methods that you should implement in order to avoid making any blunders or mistake to screw things over again.
Most relationship therapists suggest their clients to take a beat before investing their emotional and mental value in things again when you are revisiting the past. You would be tempted to post couples selfie on your Instagram account once you start hanging out with the love of your life again, but it might be better taking it slow this time. Although there is no standard formula that you can follow while keeping a preferable pace, but you should just be more patient and calm this time. You also need to communicate with her in a manner that demands reciprocation in all the aspects, so that you are not the only one who is making efforts to make things work in your romantic relationship.
When you start seeing someone again who you’ve dated in the past you would most probably think that you know all about them, but you should actually consider it like a brand new relationship because time can change people to a great degree. You should start asking them various questions to see how think and what their thoughts are in general this time.